Interesting Week

Last week was an interesting week for our family. On Monday night, Kelly received word that her Grandfather, Jim Argenbright, had passed away. She had been told that he was ill only hours before. We were taken aback at the news that he had succumbed so quickly. Kelly immediately began preparations to travel to Viriginia for the funeral. In all honesty, there are many levels of emotion regarding this situation. The family in Virginia are...well....a challenge to say the least. On Kelly's heart were so many thoughts and concerns. For her father, who had only recently healed his relationship with this man and who would be the Executor of the will. A position unenviable even in the most devoted families. For her Grandfather, whom she will miss. For the dread of dealing with an extended family whose greed, dishonesty and drama was easily predictable. For the pain of leaving her children at home for 3 days (husband too). All of this weighed heavy. However, there were positives.

Kelly's grief and anticipation of the trip turned into quality time with her sister and family (immediate that is) and a chance for me to spend 3 days as Mr. Mom. It was a really cool and needed experience on my part. Gabriel, Noah and I continued home schooling and daily routines. We went to the library and on field trips. We kept the house clean and I was still able to work some from home while the boys slept. It was great! I got to be a Consultant, Teacher, Maid, Cook, Punching Bag, Bus Driver, Window Washer, Toy Mechanic, Mediator, Father and Referee. It was an amazing week and we had a blast! Yet, let us be honest. Of all the roles I got to play, Punching Bag and Father are the only ones I claim to fill. Okay, maybe Toy Mechanic. Other than that, I'm a poor substitution. Simply put...the boys (ALL the boys) slept better the night Mom came through the door.